Funeral Details

Don Sneider

October 9, 1936 - November 14, 2024

SERVICE INFORMATION

Date and Time

Tuesday, November 19, 2024 at 1:00 PM

Service

Chicago Jewish Funerals
Skokie Chapel
8851 Skokie Boulevard
Skokie, Illinois 60077
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Clergy

Hazzan Steven Stoehr
Congregation Beth Shalom

Interment

Westlawn Cemetery
7801 West Montrose Avenue
Norridge, Illinois 60706
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Shiva

Congregation Beth Shalom
3443 Walters Avenue
Northbrook, Illinois 60062
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Tuesday upon return from the cemetery until 8:30PM.
Wednesday 5:30-8:30PM

Shiva Coordinators:
Rachel Weber: 773.490.2202
Jodi Schechter: 847.912.0581

Memorial Contributions

Alzheimer’s Association
225 North Michigan Avenue, 17th Floor
Chicago, Illinois 60601
www.alz.org





OBITUARY

Don Sneider.

Beloved husband of Marilyn. Loving father of Susan (Michael) Shalem, Laurie Mendelson (Steven Yoder), and Kim (Andrew) Bauman. Cherished grandfather of Elie, Joshua and Rebecca Samet, Allie Mendelson (Franklin Kramer), Lindsey Mendelson Iankova (Hristo Iankov), and Jessica Mendelson, Haley and Jacob Bauman. Cherished brother of the late Charlene (the late Ben) Hertz and the late Velda (the late Norman) Garfinkel. Services Tuesday, 1PM at Chicago Jewish Funerals, 8851 Skokie Blvd. (At Niles Center Road), Skokie. Interment Westlawn. Memorial contributions may be made to Alzheimer’s Association, 225 North Michigan Avenue, 17th Floor, Chicago, Illinois 60601, www.alz.org.

Don Sneider was born on October 9, 1936, at Mount Sinai Hospital in Chicago to Agnes and Sam Sneider. Don loved his family and friends with his whole heart and anyone who knew him loved him. He charmed everyone he met with his huge smile, and thanks to his signature high cheekbones, he always looked like he was smiling. Don grew up in Albany Park with his two sisters Charlene and Velda, who were extremely excited to play with their new baby brother. His sister Charlene took Don to his first Cubs game, which just happened to be the 1945 World Series. He immediately fell in love with the Cubs and spent the next 71 years waiting "until next year" to attend his next World Series!

Don learned to appreciate hard work from his very skilled father Sam, who owned a tailor shop and worked day and night to serve an impressive Chicago clientele. Don inherited his generous spirit from his father and mother Agnes, who always had an open door, and would invite soldiers in for Shabbat dinners. Don was mostly known for his kindness, generosity and ability to get things done for his community. Don had many interests including news, history, politics, movies and especially Chicago sports.

Don graduated from Von Steuben High School in 1954 and earned his bachelor’s degree in zoology from the University of Illinois in 1958 and a master’s in education from DePaul University in 1963. Don first met the love of his life, Marilyn, at a residence hall dance at the University of Illinois in 1958. They were married in June of 1960 at the Sheraton Towers Chicago where they danced all night at their fairy tale wedding. Don and Marilyn shared a beautiful life together for 64 years and were so compatible they were always by each other’s side. Together, they enjoyed traveling, socializing with their couples’ club, volunteering at the synagogue and were very active in the Morton Grove Action Party.

Don spent 35 years teaching science, math, language arts, drivers’ education and special education at Von Steuben, Stockton, Alcott, Sauganash and Dirksen schools. At Dirksen he also served as Assistant Principal, where he was so beloved, his teachers begged him to come back as principal after he retired. Don believed that difficult situations were best handled "quietly and rationally, while treating the involved individuals with dignity."

Don was a loving father to his three daughters, Susan, Laurie and Kim. He instilled in them the most important values of hard work, kindness, respect, caring and love. His upbeat, fun personality made him a special father and they all enjoyed the time they spent with him. Don and Marilyn moved from Chicago to Morton Grove in 1967 where he became very involved in the community. Don was elected to the Morton Grove Village Board in 1977 and worked tirelessly for 23 years as the longest serving village trustee in Morton Grove. During his term in office, he helped pass countless laws and implement programs that made Morton Grove a great place to live and raise a family. He was instrumental in enabling Morton Grove to become the first village on the north shore to install cable television. He also worked with the board to help Morton Grove become the first village in the nation to ban the private possession of handguns. This legislation was so historic that Don and his fellow board members appeared in an article in Life Magazine.

In his spare time, Don also worked as a counselor at Deborah Boys Club, where he supervised pre-teen physical education programs and game room activities. He was also a member of Congregation Beth Shalom and Northwest Suburban Jewish Congregation, where he served as USY youth commission chair and was very active in the men’s club. Don retired early from teaching at the age of 56, where he took up babysitting duties for his 8 grandchildren. He spent much of his time playing gin rummy with his weekly card group, brunching at Kappy's, going to the theater, mall-walking and attending Cubs games. As a grandfather to Elie, Joshua, Becky, Allie, Lindsey, Jessica, Haley and Jake, he was known as Papa Donnie. He was a fixture in their lives as he babysat and took them on outings, always there to watch and cheer them on at all their special events.

Don has touched the lives of so many and leaves behind an enduring legacy of trust, patience, guidance and strength. He will live forever in our hearts.

To view the funeral live stream please visit our website. Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals - Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com.


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I really enjoyed the few times I was able to meet Mr. Sneider, It was always with his daughter, Kim, and just before a Cubs game. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family.

Jeffrey Wilson
November 15, 2024
So very sorry for your losd

Dorrie Suarez
November 16, 2024
Don was my father's best friend. He was a friend to all. He epitomized the word mensch. He was respected by all; especially by the residents he served as a Trustee in Morton Grove.

He was a great husband to Marilyn and an amazing father, father in law and grandfather. May his memory always be for a blessing.

Chuck Kahalnik
November 16, 2024
Don was undoubtedly one of the best human beings I've had the pleasure to know. Over the years, I have learned how he never stopped giving of himself.

Pete Barber
November 17, 2024
Remembering Don with fond memories. Happy to have shared fun times with Don and Marilyn. Our deepest sympathy to Marilyn and her
family.
Harriet and Ken Millman

Harriet and Kenneth Millman
November 18, 2024
I will always have great memories of Donnie and Marilyn, Sue, Laurie and Kim. I was at his wedding when I was 6 years old. I also grew up in Albany Park and Skokie and remember Don and Marilyn as the happiest members of our family. He was always very upbeat and jovial and I loved spending time with him and all the girls. After I left Chicago , I was proud of having Donnie stand up at my wedding in 1975. His family came to Phoenix and we had a wonderful time. He also visited us in Las Vegas. He never seemed to complain about anything no matter what adversity he encountered, especially with the Cubs until 2016. He loved Chicago sports, as I still do, and I remember we always had lively discussions and probably commiserated quite a bit too over not winning! I was so happy to hear that he got to attend the World Series at Wrigley.
I will always have cherished memories of the time we spent together. Rest in peace my cousin and my friend.

Les & Allison Berman

Les Berman
November 18, 2024
I have known Don & Marilyn for close to 50 years, first through my parents and then through involvement with The Action Party & the Village of Morton Grove. Don was such a nurturing soul. He will be greatly missed.

Peggy Flickinger-Friewer
November 19, 2024
Dearest Marilyn and Family,
We are saddened to hear the passing of Don. It was an honor to know Don and he treated everyone with kindness and respect. Bill was grateful for so many years he had the experience working with Don politically.
We are unable to attend the funeral but will be viewing live stream.
Prayers for all of you.
May his memory be a blessing.
Fondly,
Bill and Maggie

Bill and Maggie Zimmer
November 19, 2024
I have fond memories of Don from interactions at Northwest Suburban. My deepest condolences to his whole family

Judy Gothelf
November 19, 2024
Mr Sneider was a long time customer of mine at Mb Financial bank, we talked about the crazy Cubs game and the weather since I loved summer time. He was a great man and I'm happy that I helped him at the bank. So sorry for your loss, he will be missed.

Susan Milke

Susan Milke
November 19, 2024
Dear Marilyn and Family:

We will never forget Don's soft-spoken and kind ways. His examples of decency and kindness to others will not be forgotten.

Tony and Jeannie Hofeld

Anthony Hofeld
November 20, 2024