Funeral Details

Dear Pete, Fred and Eileen,

Words cannot convey how special Maya was. She radiated beauty, both inside and out. She was a steadfast and loyal friend. Maya set the standard for motherhood. Her love for Hayden just oozed out at all times. I remember when I told her I was expecting, she was so genuinely happy, despite her own health struggles at the time. Maya's love knew absolutely no limits.

In 12th grade, we were in the same gym class. Maya hated exercise. We would often get in trouble for not participating in whatever sport we were playing in the six-week rotation. During badminton, we were so annoying that the gym teacher told us to go to the indoor track and use the stationary bikes so we would get out of her hair. We used to go there for every class, and watch Maury and always be so shocked when the person in the seat "was not the father". It was there that we decided to live together our freshman year at Madison.

On move in day at Statesider, I walked into the room after Maya had already arrived. She gave me the biggest hug and asked if it was alright if she already claimed her bed and closet. I remember thinking that was so thoughtful to ask, but of course she should have the side she wanted...she got there first! But that was the kind of person Maya was - deeply empathetic and kind. When we moved into the Chi Omega House, I kept finding myself hanging out in Maya's room. I guess I just missed living with her. The rest of our years at Madison together flew by in an instant. Everyone memory I have somehow involves her - laughing uncontrollably and embarrassing ourselves one way or another.

This kind of friendship was only strengthened in adulthood. I was in awe of Maya as she navigated an impossible time when Nate passed away. I didn't know how she was so strong. And then Pete came into her life right when she needed him most. I can honestly say that Maya was put on this earth to be Hayden's mother. It was like she knew she had fulfilled her role by bringing him into the world. I know she will always be watching over him.

Maya was a sensation. Smart, witty, sincere and the most beautiful person I know. May she rest in peace and keep smiling her big infectious smile down on us always.

I love you Maya, I miss you so much.

With so much,
Jessica Kapadia (Gimbel)

Jessica Kapadia

I'm not really sure what to write here. I hadn't spoken to Maya in years, but hearing the news of her passing has truly shaken me. We went to college together at Wisconsin, and while we weren’t especially close afterwards, I’ll always remember how kind, fun and full of life she was. My friends and I loved spending time with her. I just want to send my deepest condolences to her family, friends and everyone who loved her. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing.

Zachary Cohen