Funeral Details

Drew R. Suss

September 11, 1946 - February 10, 2025

SERVICE INFORMATION

Date and Time

Monday, February 17, 2025 at 2:30 PM

Memorial Service

Temple Beth-El
3610 Dundee Road
Northbrook, Illinois 60062
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Clergy

Rabbi Sidney Helbraun
Temple Beth-El

Interment - Private

Shiva

Suss Residence
Monday 5PM-8PM

Livestreaming

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Memorial Contributions

North Chicago Community Partners
855 Skokie Highway
Lake Bluff, Illinois 60044
www.northchicagocommunitypartners.org





OBITUARY

Dr. Drew Robert Suss, 78, died in his sleep on February 10, 2025 at his home in Deerfield, Illinois.
Born September 11, 1946 in the Bronx to Winifred and Lester Suss, Drew retained both the humor and patience of a New Yorker despite moving away at age 18. A lifelong learner, Drew collected various degrees from around the country, including two BAs, a masters degree, and a PhD. He worked as a writer and editor across the country, ultimately landing in Los Angeles, Calif. where he would meet his wife of 35 years, Renee. An otherwise notable wordsmith, Drew approached Renee with the line, “Does the bus stop here?” She elected to fall in love with him anyway.
Drew and Renee left sunshine and Hollywood behind when they moved to Deerfield in 1992 with their daughter, Jessica. Drew began a fruitful consulting and coaching career he would continue until his death. In his spare time, he coached Jessica through a variety of high school speechwriting engagements and line-edited her essays for English with a sharp eye for clutter and bluster.
Drew loved growing tomatoes (although with varying degrees of success), Jewish humor (notably excluding Seinfeld), woodworking projects, birdwatching, looking through (but rarely cooking from) cookbooks, making his daughter look up words in the dictionary, asking Siri questions she could not possibly answer, attending (and sometimes sleeping through) classical music concerts with his wife, and watching the Bears win.
Described by all who knew him as a character, Drew was known for his keen sense of humor, his distaste for nonsense, and his belief in doing what he called “the next right thing.” While he might have exasperated waitstaff, he was a man who knew what he wanted – and that was for his steak to be a true medium rare.
Drew is survived by his wife Renee Suss, his daughter Jessica Morrison (Thomas), his granddaughter Talia Morrison, and his brothers Charles (Kate Balassie) and David Suss.
A memorial service will be held at Temple Beth-El in Northbrook on Monday, February 17 at 2:30 pm. To attend the funeral via livestream, please see the link on this page. Shiva will be observed at the Suss residence from 5PM-8PM. Donations in his name can be made out to North Chicago Community Partners. He will be loved and missed.
Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals-Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com


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Dear Renee,
I am in Denver this week and cannot attend the funeral. I am sorry for your loss. I remember Drew as a smart, educated caring man. He added great insight to our POD lessons together. I am sure he will be dearly missed. Sending love.
Judi Israel

Judi Israel
February 11, 2025
A peach of a guy. Yes. May the light he created
continue to shine.in all of us.

Kit and Ron Condon
February 12, 2025
Drew was a very giving Coach and mentor. I was fresh out of Georgetown and our paths crossed when he gave me an opportunity to work with his team. He was kind when I had questions. And he was uplifting to work with. His light will shine through the work he did and through the love of his family

Melinda Grafton
February 13, 2025
Dear Renee, our hearts are with you at this difficult time. We send our sincere condolences to you, Jessica and the family.
We were very fond of Drew,and have lovely memories of our visits together,
May his memories be a blessing.
Sending hugs and love, Phyllis and Michael

Phyllis and Michael Moscovich
February 13, 2025
Dear Renee: My heart goes out to you. I know how much you loved Drew and how well you cared for him in his illness. You will miss him terribly. Please know that you can depend upon me to be present to you in your grief, well into the future. I love you, Susan

Susan Schaefer
February 13, 2025
Renee and Jessica,

We were so sorry to hear about Drew. I saw him just a few months ago at the post office and was reminded of all the wonderful times we had when the girls were growing up. We're not in town now so are sending you hugs from afar. May his memory be a blessing to you, your family, and everyone who knew him.
Love,
Miriam & Steve

Miriam Bauer
February 13, 2025
Drew was a mentor and coach with a group of HS students in Virginia via zoom - we have been touched by his kindness and presence. Our gratitude for his life, humor, curiosity, and the goodness he shared. With deepest condolences to family.

Jen Landis
February 13, 2025
Renee, my sweet, and Jess,

I haven’t stopped thinking about both of you since I heard the news.

Brian and I are so grateful that he was able to share in our joyous day when Brian and Emily became husband and wife. Unfortunately, that was the last time I saw him, but it meant so much hat he was there for us that day.

I remember having wonderful conversations about the Bears, and we both agreed it was tough to be a fan, but that was our team no matter what. Although time has passed, I have other wonderful memories of conversations with Drew. Always witty, and extremely insightful and bright. He will be missed.

Love both of you so very much! I am wrapping both of you in love and hugs every day, and am always here if you need anything.

All my love,
Marcy

Marcy Ray
February 13, 2025
Dear Drew
You have been my coach,, my physiatrist and my friend for the past four years and what a privilege to have known you. I don’t know how I would have gotten through the suffering and mental anguish without you during some points of my career. Thank you for giving me guidance, strength, tools, hope and three things to work on 🙂 each month. I am so glad we also started working together in good times. AND just as we were starting to have fun, you go on and take another path… granted a much more wholly one; nevertheless I will miss you dearly. One more thing…

I want you to know that the first person I wanted to call this past Wednesday after the BoD meeting was you . I wanted you to know that it went great, how proud you would have been. I thank you for all the prep work , tips and pointers until the very end. I also wanted to tell you that a few of the sentences we formulated were spoken exactly as we planned and reactions we anticipated and laughed about played out perfectly. You are being missed so dearly and deeply but I knew you were in the room with me in spirit. Thank you coach!

Renee, my heart goes out to you and your family. A consummate professional and a scholar Drew improved the lives of so many of us and was helping me until the very end… we planned to have one last chat Monday but it looks like God had better plans for him. I am so deeply saddened but (and) also feel so privileged and fortunate to have known him. I pray to God to give you the solace and strength to deal with his loss. Drew will be dearly missed not only by me, but so many of us he touched and worked with over the years.

All these things we complain about seem so pointless now…. when life is fleeting so fast. I think that is the final
lesson Drew has left us with. My deepest condolences and gratitude, may God hold all of you in his warm embrace and give you comfort. Hugs, Banu

Banu Sheehan
February 15, 2025
In many ways Drew was a mentor to me. We shared many of life's challenges and gifts for the last 13 years.

Drew kept his personal challenges with a terrible disease to himself. He was not one to seek pity. He showed great courage and acceptance.

Jose Urquiaga
February 15, 2025
Drew was a kind thoughtful and introspective , intellectual individual. He had common sense , no nonsense and a great sense of humor. He was a great friend and I will miss him dearly. Always enjoyed times with him and Renee. He was always there to help when needed and will always be my friend. Thank you Drew. May you rest in peace. My deepest condolences to his entire family as I know he will be missed every day. Prayers are with you all. Steve

Steve. Dresner
February 16, 2025