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Jay was one of kind. We grew up together along with the Padovano's(Joleen). I am deeply sadden to hear of your loss and my thought and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May he RIP. He's in a better place.

Traci Melamed

Our condolences to Grant , Sheryl ,Sarah , Trica &Max & the rest of the family . Our prayer will be with you all . 😘🌵😎 Love Phil & Caryl

Phil & Caryl Katz

Love you all very much! You are all forever in my heart!

Anthony Padovano III

My heart breaks for you all. Thinking of you and sending my love.

Nicole Moffitt

Dear Grant, Sheryl, Sarah, Tricia, and Max,

Alan and I are sending our love and keeping Jay in our prayers and thoughts. Keeping Jay’s memory alive is the best way to keep him with you always and forever.

Love you,
Joede and Alan

We Remember Them by Sylvan Kamens & Rabbi Jack Riemer

At the rising sun and at its going down; We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter; We remember them.
At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer; We remember them.
At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of the autumn; We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends; We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as We remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength; We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart; We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make; We remember them.
When we have joy we crave to share; We remember them.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs; We remember them.
For as long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as, We remember them.

Joede Berman

Though we cannot be there in person, our hearts are with you as you celebrate Jay’s life on what would have been his 46th birthday. Lou Ann and I are deeply saddened for you—Sheryl, Grant, Sarah, Tricia, their spouses and children, and all of Jay’s family and loved ones. We are especially thinking of Max, who will forever carry his father’s spirit with him. Jay’s loss is felt by so many, and we grieve alongside you. May you find comfort, strength, and peace in the love that surrounds you. With heartfelt sympathy and love,
🙏💓🫂
Mark & Lou Ann

Mark & Lou Ann Frankel

We met Jay traveling through okc last year. Very nice and personable guy. He was so exited to meet his niece Stevie Estelle wish we could have visited more. I know your family loved you and you will be missed but keep close to their hearts with memories. ❤️✝️

Sandi Starwalt

Our condolences to cousins Grant , Sheryl ,Sarah , Trica, Max, and the rest of the family . Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you.

The Pasik Family - Helen, Lester, Mark, and Joy

Mark Pasik

You will be missed. On Behalf of phi sigma kappa we extend our deepest condolences.

Jeff Nickerson

I will remember Jay for his quick wit, quirky humor and sharp intelligence. He displayed courage in facing difficult circumstances and sought to give the best he had to his son, Max. His positive attributes are passed on to Max and this will be his legacy.

Gail Grossman