Funeral Details

Ralph C. Musicant

December 22, 1947 - February 23, 2025

Interment - Private





OBITUARY

Ralph C. Musicant died at age 77 on February 23, 2025 at Northwestern Memorial Hospital surrounded by his wife, his brother, a sister-in-law, a good friend and many loved ones in person and virtually.

Ralph met and fell in love with Carleen Schreder in 1985, and they were married at Chicago Yacht Club on November 1, 1986. He soon learned that birthdays don't just happen on 1 day - they happen for an entire week.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by his beloved dogs, Pinto and Otter, his brother David Musicant and his sister Myra Musicant. Ralph is also survived by Carleen's extensive family whom he learned to love and all of whom loved him. This includes (1) her 6 siblings and their spouses - Brenda and Steve, Kevin and Annette, Julie, Robin and Vicky, Denise and Scott, and Nathan and Kara, (2) their thirteen nieces and nephews and their spouses - Paul, Mark and Dawn, Beth and Brian, Jason and Morgan, Bryan and Ashley, Matthew and Allie, Eric, Lauren and Kyle, James, Parker and Madi, Conner, Luke, and Ben, (3) their fourteen great nieces and nephews and one spouse - Kaleb, Keaton, Karmon, Kamille, Lukas and Lexy, Molly, Ashley, Noah, Mae, Kolbe, Gianna, John Paul, Ryker, and Kayden. Ralph was glad that there were at least a couple of Cubs fans in the group! He hopes the family will continue the Musicant Invitational Bowling Tournament every Thanksgiving.

Ralph graduated from Northwestern University in 1968. He was proud of graduating from Harvard Law School (1971) but hated the practice of law. Instead he loved coming up with new ideas for businesses long before the world was ready. He always said the most significant events in his life before marrying Carleen were attending Harvard Law School and going on an Outward Bound excursion.

Ralph was an avid sailor and named all his sailboats Enlightened. He loved scuba diving and got his wish to dive the Great Barrier Reef. He was happiest doing anything on or in the water.

He had many loyal loving friends from grade school, high school, college, law school, Chicago Yacht Club, East Bank Club, and Macatawa Bay Yacht Club. He enjoyed martinis and good cigars, loved Kangol hats in every color, always wanted to try something new (like zip lining for the first time in Hawaii in 2011), and was a great story teller. His stories were memorable and could make you laugh even after you heard them for the 10th time.

He will be missed by so many. Whether you knew him for 70 years or 7 years, you always remembered when you first met Ralph. This last week, Ralph has been described as "an original", "one in a million", "generous to a fault", "room-filling", "distinctive", "coolest guy in the room", "a personality of joy" - this says it all.

Ralph's last tattoo was "Justice for all" in Hebrew. In keeping with that spirt, he wanted donations to be made to social justice organizations. He favored two that were founded by his friends, Center for Global Initiatives (Ralph was a founding advisor) and Environmental Law and Policy Center in Chicago, but feel free to choose your own organization.

A celebration of life will be arranged shortly. Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals - Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com


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I have many fond memories of Ralph on his visits to us in Kentucky. He was a bright mind and active, fun spirit and I am very sorry for your loss.

Matt Fore

Matt Fore
February 24, 2025
I remember Ralph giving my brother and me some Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles comics when we were kids… I didn’t know anything about the Turtles at the time, but 10 years later…. Whoa boy! Ralph was always way ahead of the curve. So sorry for your loss but what a rich life lived.

Larkin Fore, Jr.
February 24, 2025
Yes, Ralph was absolutely one of a kind. He was not always easy or agreeable, but his wisdom and candor kept me out of worse trouble than I got myself into, as when I asked for his support in resuming a relationship with an ex, and he said he didn't like anyone who hurt his friends (as this ex had hurt me). It was an honor to be called his friend, and to sing him off to Heaven. (I know, we Jews don't believe in Heaven, but isn't there a little wiggle room for a good man taken too soon?) Much love to Carleen, David and all those who mourn the end of this exceptional life.

Patricia (Patty) McMillen
February 24, 2025
OMG, so sorry for your loss. Ralph was a best friend of mine from the WHIPPLE street gang growing up. Chesler.s, Glass's, Halpern's, Sach's, Elrod's, Addis's,
Antichol's , Finestein's, Matt's, Gore's, Septom's and many others my memory cant remember. Saw him almost every day from age"s 3 to 15. A childhood of fond memories. -Went to Clinton, Green, and Mather together. Then our family moved to Skokie and we lost touch. But he was a legend in my mind ever since. His mother Sarah ran out of her house and picked me up after my bike flipped over. And his father, Morry was our Cub scout den leader. And we were in same 7th and 8th grade club, Medico's. Best poker player around. Once again, my sincere condolence to you, Myra and David.
Marc Steinberg-Klein.

Marc Klein
February 25, 2025
HaOlam HaBa (World to Come) has a very deserving new member.

Howard and Trinka Soloway
February 25, 2025
I cannot find the words strong enough o convey my deep sadness with this news. Ralph is a friend and a mentor who touched and changed my live, and many others’ as well. His intelligence, no-BS style, and aplomb are without peer or measure. I love, admire, and respect him deeply. Carleen, likewise, you are an amazing force of nature. Your love and advocacy for Ralph is a role model for us all to mimic. If we may be able to be of any help or support, please do not hesitate.

Chris Stout
February 25, 2025
Carleen; our since condolences.

Michael &Judy Pinsky
February 26, 2025
Carleen, my condolences. My dad always spoke so fondly of Ralph and considered him a dear friend for as long as I can remember. May his memory be a blessing.

joshua levin
February 26, 2025
To Carleen , family and friend s our love ! I Know his example will last forevet among all ! Love Flavio

Flavio ZolaSantiago
February 28, 2025