Funeral Details

Jonathan Steiner Wolf

December 22, 1951 - May 4, 2026

SERVICE INFORMATION

Date and Time

Wednesday, May 6, 2026 at 2:00 PM

Service

Chicago Jewish Funerals
Skokie Chapel
8851 Skokie Boulevard
Skokie, Illinois 60077
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Clergy

Rabbi Michael Balinsky

Interment

Memorial Park Cemetery
9900 Gross Point Road
Skokie, Illinois 60076
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Shiva

Ben and Donna Wolf
1132 Grant Street
Evanston, Illinois 60201
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Following the interment until 8PM
and Thursday 4PM-8PM
Minyan both nights @ 7:30PM

Memorial Contributions

NewCAJE
354 Kenrick Street
Newton, Massachusetts 02458
www.newcaje.org
or
Be Strong Families
1074 Taylor Street, Unit 354
Chicago, Illinois 60607
www.bestrongfamilies.org
or
Friends of Interfaith Encounter Association
6949 Conservation Drive,
Springfield, Virginia 22153
www.interfaith-encounter.org
or
The Carlebach Shul Congregation Kehilath Jacob
305 West 79th Street
New York, New York 10024
www.thecarlebachshul.org





OBITUARY

Jonathan Steiner Wolf
December 22, 1951 – May 4, 2026

Jonathan Steiner Wolf devoted his life to the work of community—creating it, challenging it, and expanding what it could mean.

For more than half a century, he stood at the intersection of Jewish learning, social activism, and lived experience, refusing to separate the ethical from the spiritual, or the political from the personal. He was not simply a participant in Jewish communal life; he was one of its architects—often working outside formal structures, sometimes ahead of them, and frequently pushing them to become more inclusive, more just, and more alive.

As President and CEO of YASHAR: The Institute for Jewish Activism, a role he held for over two decades, Jonathan dedicated himself to equipping others with the tools of organizing, grounded in Torah and directed toward real-world impact. Through teaching, organizing, writing, speaking, and funding, he helped seed and sustain a wide constellation of initiatives—supporting movements for human rights, environmental responsibility, interfaith understanding, and Jewish pluralism.

Over the course of his life, he played a formative role in creating, strengthening, or guiding dozens of organizations, including the Beyond Shelter Coalition, Jewish Vegetarians of North America, the Jewish environmental network later known as Hazon, Limmud communities in multiple cities, and interfaith and human rights initiatives in both the United States and Israel. He moved fluidly between New York, Chicago, Washington, and Jerusalem, carrying ideas, relationships, and energy from one place to another—often before others recognized the connections were needed.

He was, at heart, an educator.

For nearly five decades, Jonathan taught adults in synagogues, conferences, and informal settings across North America and the United Kingdom. His subjects ranged widely—feminism and halacha, pluralism, political ethics, environmental responsibility, vegetarianism, and the evolving moral questions of Jewish life. He believed learning was not only about the transmission of knowledge, but about awakening responsibility. He added a joyous sense of humor and a quick wit to the profound substance of what he taught and wrote. His students, family and friends have countless stories of his hilarious jokes, skits and songs.

In a sprawling Upper West Side apartment, he created something akin to a living laboratory of Jewish life. As director of the West Side Center for Jewish Life, he hosted Shabbatot, study sessions, holiday celebrations, and political conversations that blurred the boundaries between home, synagogue, and movement. It was messy, alive, and deeply generative—an experiment in what community could be when people showed up and fully engaged with each other.

He carried that same spirit into his earlier work at Lincoln Square Synagogue, where he built one of the most ambitious lay-led community action programs in North American Jewish life—engaging volunteers in everything from social services to political advocacy to direct aid for those in need.

Jonathan’s path began in Evanston, Illinois, where even as a student he was already creating—editing a major high school newspaper, launching publications, and bringing people together around ideas. At Columbia University and the Jewish Theological Seminary, he continued that trajectory, combining intellectual inquiry with activism, including organizing protests against the Vietnam War and working with marginalized populations. Later, he founded and led the Orthodox Jews for Obama.

He often described his education as a “Yeshiva of Hard Knocks,” a phrase that captured both his humility and his conviction that learning happens through engagement with the real world.

Throughout his life, Jonathan resisted narrow definitions—of Judaism, of politics, of identity. He believed in a Judaism that could hold complexity: tradition and change, particularism and universalism, devotion and dissent. He saw activism not as opposition, but as obligation.

Those who knew him experienced a person of intensity, conviction, and generativity—someone who could convene, provoke, support, and inspire, often all at once.

He was the beloved father of Mengistab Tesfemariam Wolf, and the devoted son of Rabbi Arnold Jacob Wolf z”l and Margery Steiner Wolf z”l and beloved step-son of Grace Wolf. He was a brother of Benjamin (Donna) Wolf and a step-brother to Sara Berger, Justine (Anthony Scott) Henning, Sarah-Anne (John) Schumann and Dara Henning, along with many nieces and nephews. In an act of both scholarship and love, he edited and brought forward a collection of his father’s writings, The Unfinished Rabbi, helping to ensure that a generation’s voice and vision would continue to be heard.

Jonathan Steiner Wolf’s legacy lives not in any single institution, but in the countless communities he helped bring into being, and in the people who continue the work he set in motion.

In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions to NewCAJE, 354 Kenrick Street, Newton, Massachusetts 02458, www.newcaje.org or Be Strong Families, 1074 Taylor Street, #354, Chicago, Illinois 60607, www.bestrongfamilies.org or Friends of Interfaith Encounter Association, 6949 Conservation Drive, Springfield, Virginia 22153, www.interfaith-encounter.org or The Carlebach Shul Congregation Kehilath Jacob, 305 West 79th Street, New York, New York 10024, www.thecarlebachshul.org. Service Wednesday 2PM at Chicago Jewish Funerals, 8851 Skokie Blvd (at Niles Center Road), Skokie. Interment Memorial Park Cemetery. To attend the funeral livestream, please visit our website. Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals - Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com


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What a shock and a loss. I remember back in the day, I would refer to him as "the Hillel rabbi of the West Side". He will certainly be missed.

Freda Birnbaum
May 5, 2026
Have to admit the first thing that sprang to mind was the sign he made for White Sox catcher Bill Nahorodny: "Na-ha, hey hey!" (Most of his signs were somewhat more obscure.) I stayed in Kathy's apartment for Shavuot 1992 — while she was in Jon's famous apartment in NYC — and met my future wife. Then they stayed with us in Brookline for Sukkot in 1993 when there was an attempted coup against Boris Yeltsin, and Jon kept rushing out of our guest room with the latest updates. He wanted to move the world in his direction and, I guess, died trying. עליו השלום.

Michael Carasik
May 5, 2026
Baruch Dayan Emet. A tragic loss for the Jewish people. I knew Jon best when he lived on Riverside Drive in Manhattan. He made his apartment a hub of activity and inspiration. Then, and more recently, his incisive mind and passion for a variety of Jewish and other causes enriched the lives of so many people. He will be sorely missed.
May his memory be for a blessing and a source of comfort to his family.

Carole Daman
May 5, 2026
Jonathan and I shared our formative years at Congregation Solel. We were confirmed together and spent many years in contact through Columbia/ Barnard, CAJE and so much more! I will miss his wit and wisdom. יהי זכרו ברוך

Laura Schwartz Harari
May 5, 2026
I’m so sorry to hear this, I got to know him when Ben and I were at Washington U and I would spend time at the Wolf household in Evanston during summer breaks. During one of his more observant periods, I was honored to be his “shabes goy” and switch electrical devices on and off as he moved about the house on Fridays and Saturdays.

Jon, I’ll miss you. Rest in peace, brother.

Sunil Subbakrishna
May 5, 2026
So sorry to hear about the great loss of Jon. I played Sunday morning softball with Jon and Ben for many years, and they often took me or gave me tickets to White Sox games. Like Jon I was often in NY, Boston, and Chicago.

Marc Balban
May 5, 2026
Jon was the pulse of our Upper West Side Torah community. He pushed us to grapple with the questions that mattered—Orthodoxy and feminism; the documentary hypothesis and Torah min HaShamayim; our responsibility as stewards of the Earth. Around his Shabbos table, we argued, learned, and forged deep bonds late into the night. He inspired us, and gently but persistently called us to do better.

May Hashem comfort his family and friends among all the mourners who were touched by him. His memory is a blessing.

Esther Macner
May 5, 2026
Jonathan had a great capacity for love. He was a devoted father, a loyal friend, and a person who instinctively moved toward people in need. Compassion was not performative for him; it was woven into the fabric of who he was. He showed up for people. Again and again.

Though our marriage ended, our bond did not end with it. What connected us ran deeper than circumstance. We remained “soully” connected through a shared commitment to chesed, to service, to tzedakah, to the responsibility to care for other human beings with generosity and heart. We recognized deep generosity in one another.

I saw Jonathan’s brilliance, his creativity, his passion, and the depth of his feeling. He cared intensely — about people, ideas, justice, meaning, and love itself. He brought energy, imagination, and presence into the lives of those around him.

Together, we remained deeply devoted to the wellbeing of our son, but what I honor today is larger than a parenting partnership. I honor a human being with a beautiful soul and a kind heart, someone whose loyalty ran deep and whose compassion touched many lives.

I feel blessed to have known him, blessed that our lives intersected, and grateful for all that was true and good between us.

May his memory be for a blessing.

Kathryn Leigh Goetz
May 6, 2026
We say goodbye with deep love and gratitude for this passionate life.

Laurie Zoloth
May 6, 2026
I was Jonathan’s guidance counselor at ETHS!! One of his fellow classmates was kind enough to send me a know so I was able to participate.

It will be no surprise to you to learn that I was very taken with him!! Smart- thinking always outside the box - passionate about the world!! The highlight of our graduation ceremony that Spring of 1969 was having his Father deliver the Benediction. There was not a dry eye in the auditorium. And then we could see Jon!! Wonderful!

My condolences to all of his family.

Mary Zavett
May 6, 2026
To Jon, a Dear Friend, and so z”l, takes on special meaning here…May the depth and power of your consciousness and actions live on in our hearts and actions to connect the larger Jewish community and make the world a better place and care about each person you connect with

He was integral to Lincoln Square Synagogue, in coordinating the Social Action Committee at Lincoln Square when Rabbi Berman was the Rabbi. I coordinated one of his committees, the Homelessness Committee. and worked with him in a homelessness advocacy organization, the Beyond Shelter Coalition. I first got to know him through mutual friends and often went to Shabbat and holiday meals at his apartment. I also had taken a fascinating Judaism and Vegetarianism course with him earlier at LSS.

While he was originally from Chicago and went back there for many years, his apartment while on UWS, with roommates, was open to anyone who needed it and ran like an informal Jewish organization with Shabbat and holiday meals,(I still remember his Passover vegetarian lasagna, as he was also a great cook and his mother, z"l, and my mother, z"l, being at some of his Pesach seders). Two additional general meal events that he was famous for were popularizing the Tu B’Shvat Seder, putting together his own Haggadah for it and causing it to become a mainstream Jewish event all over the UWS and beyond, as no none we knew was doing that then! The other unusual holiday meal he was known for was a vegetarian Thanksgiving meal, the night before the holiday, for friends, complete with ice cream turkey! On the fun side, I also remember going with Jon and a couple of his friends and his father, who was a well-known rabbi, apple picking in Connecticut! It was a great way to get to know his father, also a great man, who Jonathan loved and respected, especially for his pluralism and social action. He felt inspired and grateful to his mother and father for their strides in that direction.

He had events and lectures by well-known rabbis and organization leaders in the neighborhood and from out of town and a spirit and way of being constantly active to try and make the world a better place and on an individual person to person level as well. I started a couple of traditions, one, a monthly Poetry, Drama Song group based on themes of each Jewish month and also a vegetarian camping Shabbaton on the Shabbat where it says Mah tovu oholecha Yaacov (how goodly are your tents). He publicized both events and helped with organizing the camping one.

Most meals he did were like an open potluck and most of us brought a cooked dish or something to contribute to the meal and it was an atmosphere whether with a joke or a dvar torah or an opinion or sharing information about something or a cause, everyone was welcome to participate. He also was creative and fun, with songs adapted from hits for various times of the Jewish year. His sometimes-castigating comments about an issue, a perspective, a movement, a way of doing things, came not from a cynical, what’s the point negativity but came from his unique sense of urgency of applying a better way to take action and make the world a better place. While he was vociferously up front, when he felt it was needed, when something did not live up to his standards or that he felt should be done differently, he was endlessly loyal to those of us who were his friends and he was really there for them.

This included his being one of the friends who stayed until 3 in the morning when I had shiva for my father, z"l, as that was a complicated situation and how he made sure I was not alone for a minute during that Shabbat, but had me spend a lot of time that Shabbat with Rabbi Tsvi Blanchard and his wife Naomi, who we both knew well.

His way of thinking and behaving was left leaning Modern Orthodox. He both started and was active in Jewish Orthodox left leaning organizations and over the years, constantly feeling himself urged to make the world a better place. I still keep one of his minhags, which is to collect money for several charities anytime I have a major event. During his time back in Chicago, he and his then wife, who he continued to maintain a good connection with long after, adopted an Ethiopian boy, Mengistab, who he loved and took great pride in and Mengistab was very devoted to him and helping out with anything needed, with his various medical issues over more recent years.

He had the kind of life that would take most people several lifetimes to build and…

Unlike most people, you can truly say that he was a legend in his own time!

Bracha Lieberman
May 6, 2026
In 1985, as rabbi of Lincoln Square Synagogue, I managed to convince the Board that we needed to hire Jonathan Wolf as Director of Community Action. We already had an outstanding staff, Rabbi Herschel Cohen ZT"L, Chazzan Sherwood Goffin ZT"L, and Yibadlu Le'Chaim, Rabbi Ephraim Buchwald, and Suri Kasirer. We each had our own roles in The Shul and served our own constituencies in providing spiritual engagement and practical halachic guidance, outreach to beginners, Jewish education at a high level, pastoral care, youth engagement, support for Israel and Soviet Jewry, meaningful prayer and Chessed projects, Bikkur Cholim and Chevra Kaddisha. The Shul was a one stop supermarket for religious growth.

But Jonathan's arrival on the scene added a unifying thread to all of our religious and spiritual and educational efforts.

He enabled us to have a uniting vision, to see -
that you are not celebrating Sukkot correctly if you are not dealing with how to provide shelter and nourishment to homeless people in our surrounding streets;
that we are not celebrating Pesach correctly unless we are doing something about slavery in the world;
that we are not doing Shavuot well if we are not trying to provide religious education to Russian Jews who escaped to the US;
that we are not being Frum enough about our observance of Rosh Hashana unless we are fighting for the recognition of the Tzelem Elokim of the people of Darfur;
that we are not experiencing Yom Kippur correctly if we are not concerned with starvation and hunger in the US and throughout the world.

All that and much more. Jonathan enabled us to see that Tikkun Olam really can be a fully integrated endeavor of the Orthodox community.

He taught us the message of Yeshayahu chapter one - in spades. He may not have been a Navi, a Prophet, but he was certainly a magnificent Spiritual Hero whose lessons we still need to learn and actualize in our own lives.

I am certain that Jonathan's Neshama was greeted in heaven by the Prophets, en mass, thanking him for his valiant attempt to help the Jewish People achieve their rightful condition as an Am Kadosh - a Holy People.

His memory can itself be a Blessing to us all.
May he rest in Peace.

Rabbi Saul Berman
May 6, 2026
The world, with all it's troubles, feels like a lesser place without Jon. I admired his passion for the things he believed in. Too often in today's world, people feel that if something is controversial or too much work to do, we shouldn't bother. Jon would never back down. He fought for what he believed in--unrelentingly. The world needs voices like his--maybe even when we don't listen--otherwise, we will lose our moral compass.

One of the things that Jon was passionate about was Jewish education and the work of the organization that I helped found, NewCAJE. He attended more than 20 of the CAJE conferences and over half of the NewCAJE conferences--every time leading workshops on social justice themes and how they related to Jewish teachings. On a registration form, we asked Jon--Do you work full time in Jewish education--"yes" he replied. How many hours are you contracted per week to work in Jewish education. "All the time" was his answer. and, How many years since you were 22 years old, have you worked in Jewish education? "All of them". As it was written in his obituary: " He was, at heart, an educator.

He loved CAJE because it was a week ever year he could live his dream of pluralism as Jews of every denomination came together to learn and celebrate. He also loved to watch adults who transmit Jewish education to others, deepen their understanding of Torah and Pedagogy. This brought him joy.

He would often correct the grammar on the emails that went out and he didn't always like the words others used that he thought were silly or inappropriate. One day, he wrote back to me after we announced a webinar using the words "unpacking" ideas" He was furious and funny at the same time and he said: I haven't seen so much unpacking since my son and I took a multi-stop trip Caribbean cruise."

Jon supported NewCAJE in good times and difficult times and when he returned from a conference he took the time to write to us to say: " Feel proud of your accomplishments! "That is exactly what I would want to say to him now, if I could. It is not our job to complete the task, Jon, but I hope you feel proud of your accomplishments! May Jon find peace in the perfect, peaceful, equality and vegetarianism of Gan Eden. May the memory of his passion and activism that led to action be an inspiration to us all.

CHERIE KOLLER-FOX
May 6, 2026
Jonathan was an institution on the Upper West Side, and he changed all of our lives. He was a pioneer of Jewish vegetarianism and environmentalism, and regardless of how we got to his table, we became a part of his movement. I helped with the L'Olam conferences at Lincoln Square Synagogue and other campaigns later on. I admired Jon's expansive knowledge and his principled activism. Power to Jon for always trying to keep the establishment honest! While he could be fiercely argumentative, he also had a gentle laugh, and he gave his friends love in abundance. There definitely were times when he believed in me more than I believed in myself. Then there were the creative activities he came up with to bring Jewish tradition to life. I'm thinking of the canned kosher tomato sauce taste tests, the tree-shaped challah filled with nuts and raisins on Tu B'Shevat, and the Mashiach Meal in Riverside Park, when many of us formed a brigade carrying aluminum trays of food out of the apartment (I think someone referred to it as the Exodus). Another fond memory for me was staying over on a Shabbat or Yom Tov and getting to know his wonderful mother. The last email I received from Jonathan was a request to say a Misheberach for Kathe, which I have been doing. Little did I know that I should also have been saying one for him. Kathe and Mengistab, I am grieving with you and your family and Jonathan's far-flung community. Wishing you comfort and hoping that your many memories of this one-of-a-kind human being will sustain you.

Susie Tanenbaum
May 7, 2026
Like Laura, I knew Jon originally through the Solel Youth Group, a key institution in shaping my Jewish life. We corresponded when he was at Gilboa and I was finishing college, and I visited him at Gezer. I visited his famous Riverside Drive apartment several times, including for one of his Zmirot exchange evenings. Our discussions and correspondence were important to me in charting my path toward greater traditional observance. Our contact in recent years has been sporadic and mostly through his mass emails, but when we did have individual contact, he was the same warm, direct, and spontaneous friend that he had always been, and, even being aware of some of the health problems he had been having, I was shocked to hear of his death. Y'hi zichro varuch.

Richard Friedman
May 8, 2026
Jonathan, my Abba, was an amazing person. He always supported me throughout my struggles and was always there for me. I loved him so much. I couldn’t love a person more. He was so kind and good hearted, and he did everything he could to help everyone in need. He taught me how to be a good person. He was the greatest person I’ve ever known. I love you Abba, and I’ll see you again someday.

Mengistab Wolf
May 8, 2026
Such a wonderful man whose impact on the world and the people in it will be felt for decades and genetations to come.

Tracy Kirchmann
May 9, 2026
Ben, I am so sorry to see this. Your brother was a very nice man. I remember his smile when he would stop by at gatherings at Kathy’s home.

Marcia Harer
May 9, 2026
I was so sad to hear of Jonathan’s passing!! We were friends for so many years. I extend my sincere condolences!!

Hamakom Yenachem Etchem B'Toch Sh'ar Avele Tzion Virushalayim!

-Rabbi Doug

Rabbi Doug Zelden
May 9, 2026